egoless.....

if oni one is aware.............. ego,pride and self is 'NO' number 1 in our life. it is being selfless or egoless!! u wanna claim winner ? its all YOURS. good luck ,2 u if u think u can keep that title forever........just being honest in posting the truth about life, unless u have the $$$ to play dirty politic to stay at top. malaysia boleh!

why i m still a buddhist.

always try to understand deep in the faith that v wr brought up with & learn about others too......he openly taught me, never oppose or hate but learn to respect ,understand and tolerate deeper. never blindly follow nor shut up to others in all forms and areas. from papa to me.......

why argue and why not reason??

fools argue:
1.to be right
2.to defense
3.because they felt offended
4.to get personal or even with a person
5.when they felt subject spoken is purposely directed towards them because it was true to a certain degree
6.because they are ignorant
7.because ego and perception rules


they will:
1.feels victory if other party show it is useless to carry on argument
2.be not ashamed but proud of their ignorance
3.uses lame excuse to get even
4.feels every subject spoken is purposely directed to him/her
5.offensive
6.defensive
7.egoistic
8. blame others for putting them into shame,unhappiness,not solving the problem for them and etc

when lost in an argument they stay silence to revenge later.



wise man reason:
1.to try to send message across
2.to show disagreement forefront
3.to will show weakness of person who ignorance
4.give up to avoid ugly scene
5. seek solace with the wise
6.move away from fools

at times i m happy that it created an impact that works...

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far cry from within..............

i m happy with my job but not happy with...............there for i cant move or improve much more than where i m now!!! situation is not stagnant too but descending rather then ascending. from achieving better i m afraid it is going down the drain.

to ppl whom i m currently working with.........

you cant move or improve far if you work with ppl who cant function or focus.......associate with the wise , you learn 2 manage and b wiser. associate with the fools you learn 2b ignorant and foolish. show the fools wisdom there is a chance to succeed, when fools cant absorb wisdom .......move away and leave them alone.

to my children who will eventually go thru...........

failure- if u learn 2 understand why it happen & how 2 deal with the mistake u made is the right approach than hating and blaming it and everyone except yourself!! many ppl fall to hating and blaming rather than dealing and understand how to work the right way........

a leader or a traitor...........

it is a world of everything out there........dream, chase, take, mark your territory, form clicks with ppl who r your kind and c who plays the game best!!! some see,learn,understood, work it out, make it happen, stay with the wise and make things better for every living being and grow........which one r u??

satisfaction being a mother...........

love being a parent.............no complain at all.oni a little tiring but never felt like its too much or giving up. sweetest thing is when u c them growing, budding and waiting for full bloom.

blind faith vs sighted faith.........

ur faith is different, do follow to it and u need to. sorry, i never count on god
or pray, pray business but look into myself. v will learn more
and solve more problems. god is there but it is not his job or life!! its our life and job to c, learn and solve. entirely ours!!!
lol.........peace and no offence to differe...nt faith believer.........

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young and naive yet old but foolish......

m gald i level up my mind 2c & accept ppl who ,think they r more superior but actually hiding or being denial they r actually more inferior in mind.....v have come a long way 2b what v r. v dont want 2 challenge anybody. v accept u as u r if u want 2 prove better but will not challenge .v dun need it! unintentionelly i... shut them up!!!wonder what is with their mind???

how 18 yrs was survived!!

may all b well & happy in everything..it's not easy 2 survive this long & far together plus going thru all obstacles of life esp my part as a friend, wife & business partner 2 him. it ws also a risk marriage that opens its door 2 many things( rivals, women ,jealousy &etc) that possess danger 2 our family.

its all rains, shines ,thunder storms & rainbows.worthy when overcame with patient, understanding & endurance. i thank u all( frens, families, students and parents) who stood by us thru thick & thin.........

what is new or old after 18 yrs.....

18 yrs has passed , many tear has been shed, many doubts has been
understood, many hurdles has been crossed, many joy and laughter with 3
precious darlings. aren't we mature enough to live another 100 years
together without doubt how to handle ourselves and share what we
learned with everyone?? remembering 29th may.......

before i say, i do..............

before i say, i do.......i contemplate in many angles and dimension. i must b at the right mind, foresee and make wise planing , not to hurt, respect, cherish each other for poorer or richness, nurse each other when sickness to health, mistake are for us to learn not to argue who is more right or who made the mistake and most of all mistake are not to be repeat, not to foolishly give up this union unless the other party is foolish in making this foolish decisions and actions, lead when needed, follow when it is right with no harm to others, being a good listener and advise wisely.

18 yrs has passed , many tear has been shed, many doubts has been understood, many hurdles has been crossed, many joy and laughter with 3 precious darlings. aren't we mature enough to live another 100 years together without doubt how to handle ourselves and share what we learned with everyone??

no one is spare.............

no one is spared by jealousy, malicious spoken, challenged and everything bad. not even jesus christ, nabi mohd or buddha. so why shud i hate anyone who do all to me too. u n i r and they were all human too......=D

dont just listen..............

a good listener can b cultivated and it is an art to be a good listener...u listen with ur willing heart, open mind, curious eyes and lastly, tone spoken 2 ur ear. if u only uses ur ear, it is difficult to understand fully but easier fall in2 foolishly understood. misconception, misunderstood , misguided ,misjudged and many 'mis...' occur.

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oso... when other half tend to sway out mutual focus, oni other half can make him/her straighten up or break. i must say i m not clever nor smart but choose to stay wise and aware of what can harm me and my entire family. i loose it, i loose almost all.

i felt sorry for everyone except the person who choose to start a different path with new ... See more union but i cant guarantee how long our union can last. no one can. until one or the other is 6' under.

i have faith in myself but not anyone else unless they stay focus and faithful..... v get a chance to renew our faith and goals together every year or every second....so lets make life exciting instead of miserable...i might b the lucky one or unlucky one one day. who knows....

dun take chances when ur other half is faithful and focus .one day they might burnt out......

i felt sad for ppl i know who r separated and hope i can find a way to mend or help too. its not easy. u need 2b selfless and good understanding to mend things. ego and 'self' can kill a good union......cherish all u love.

marraige...........

when u marry a person ,its a package called, 'not oni love'.................it comes with commitments, same goal,same mind, same energy level, trust,motivation,responsible, respect, cherish, maturing together and many positive values......if there r negative values appearing, pls think more than 2x b4 u say, I DO........I M +VE I DID !!!!!!

happy mother's day..........

2 my mother , mother in law and all mothers ( and dad who stand in as mom when mom is not around) in the world who sacrifises more that ur youth, time, mental stresses and self unselfishly to ur children and family, my salute to you and u r the real ''MOTHER''!!! u deserved the BEST love and attention in the world...............

being foolish...........

respect, tolerance, understanding with rational communication is key to a happy partnership.......dun b a hero or try 2b an island 2 ur partnership! fools argue to win. discussion is a way to make another understand. dun take it for granted. being a good listener too,is an advantage...............

being self centered......

when u r ambitious or ignorant where ur focus is , u will not b aware of where your area of focus shud b..... marraiges, partnership or friendship drown into samsara.

growing up............

young minds r so venerable........growing up enviroment ,who u met, who u worked with, what u experienced and what u heard either shape u to the wrong or right path........

expectation and perfection.........

everyone is not but those who achieved results , tried to understand and work towards understanding how to get close to perfection..........if v did try v somehow get closer to it.if v accept that no body's perfect all the time,then it becomes an excuse for a reason. hope u find justice to ur problem facing justin....... it is difficult when expectation is pushing u to feel this way.lol.

learn to love..............

say to her love ones, when u come across ugly event ,dont hate but learn. u dont have 2 join in but watch n learn something from it. feel blessed that v dont teach you to hate .....look at the ugly & beautiful sides of the world, learn and make the wise decision ........

kesempurnaan.........

'bukan semua insan mempunyai sifat-sifat yang sempurna dalam apa jua di dunia, jangan salahkan saya'.

manusia seperti ini tidak sedar ksempurnaan bukan suatu yang lahirkan semulajadi/dikurniakn tuhan. pencapaian ini adalah hasil sikap tekun sambil menghadapi liku hidup sementara berjuang mencari jawapan untuk menjadi seorang insan yang lebih produktif,lebih lagi supaya dapat menguruskan diri dengan lebih cekap.

orang yang tak dapat bersemuka dengan kegagalan diri akan memberi alasan yang sebegitu.........

bersyukurlah...............

lebih bahagia hidup dengan rasa bersyukur daripada rasa iri hati.................setiap peristiwa hidup yg pahit/manis tak kekal lama seumur hidup. yg manis di kenang,yg pahit di jadikan pengajaran............manusia yg hidup dgn pegangan pedoma kuat ,cari pasal sendiri, manusia yg tiada pegangan pedoman, janganlah ses...al nanti. yg pintar akan cari keseimbangan hidup yg waras.....

watak yang saya di tugaskan.............

selalu mengingatkn sayangku , masih sedar akan peranan watak kita sbg:anak, adik beradik,suami/isteri, ibu/bapa, atuk/nenek sekarang maupun masa depan. dptkah kita dgn banganya menceritakan tentang pencapaian&kebanggan watak serta peranan kita yg mungkin mengkagumkan generasi kelak ........hidup ini bukan sekadar laku...nan riwayat hidup kita tapi tugas dan pendirian kita bersama org2 kesayangan.

sengsara

sengsara...hasrat keluar lautan sengsara di tangn kau ,bkn tgn org/ tuhan, hidup di dunia mmg bkn sendirian. tenangkn fikiran, imbas kembali, hidup ni bkn lakunan ,mimpi/janji manis tp kehadirn 'sebab & kerana'. alasan2 tak dpt menghindari kau dr lautan sengsara...bangun&hadapi pahit serta pedih hidup manusia, pasti a...wan mendung kan jd hujan & janji sinaran matahari/bintang pasti di tunaikn...

6 animals in the head.........

our mind is like 6 animals tied 6 ropes. a bird, a hyena, a crocodile,a snake,a tiger and a monkey. each pulling to 6 different directions.........any clue what happen?? hehehe! thanks to Bhante for sharing.............m one of those lucky ones.oh! it is what you hear, taste, smell,think, see and touch. each will pull you to different direction as u want to focus in whatever v need 2 do. eg: study... hunger comes, i smell food, how' i 'wishes, need music,, i hate this pen, pls shut up, TV, human relationship problem, new or unfiinish projects, which comes 1st ar (?), but i want,2b or not... See more... See more, shall i or not, i think i cant but i have to, m jelous,m angry, she is not so good...and etc comes to mind when v need 2b focus and b done!!! TAME THE MIND, no excuses, focus and b done!

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tried of people who...........

learn 2 respect & love b4 we think we r RIGHT...learn about our short comings & change is important not self-ego. 'I ' people often think they r never wrong & very right about religious views, positions, actions , what they learned in '......' & thoughts.a religion that teachers us 2 think between right & wrong ,respecting others & not telling us 2 fear & follow "..." is more right! use our brain and discover!!!

i finally level up in enlightenment!!

mm...........life is great when u gets older. ppl who r mean and sick gets smaller and smaller. while ur confident ,focus and real friends gets bigger and bigger!

dedicated to ju han........

right thoughts, right focus,right actions, right approach ,truthful and sincere v remaind best of friends forever.........no wonder Kym says he is such a darling!!!

attendance and learning

when attendance is seriously not consistence .........the whole class suffers! a reason 2b absent is ok but not most of the time(students and teachers as well)....................

teacher..........

teaching is not a problem.finding a way to help u learn and understand is the biggest challenge...........dedicated to all teachers and parents

hey mums and teachers. what v need is a distressing high tea together or a all teachers club getaway sumwhere.... u know la the children ballet exam round the corner and these holidays(nov 09- feb 10!!!) gets into my nerves as attendance is no good (esp the smaller ones). the demand of consistency in good results is there!!!one sec v say no v have to retire next the craving to share is there and it drive us to go back to teach................-_-

many parents thinks learning ballet, swimming , piano and etc r not so important ..so dun take these classes 2 seriously but they din know it is as important as school.. attitude and responsible is cultivate here as in sch.( in UK they r recognized as a subject and marks r accounted in their school as a subjest) it is equal. my children do not ... See morecancel ballet,piano or swimming lessons when exam is 2moro.......learn this from my international sch's students and parents. practicing it with my children!!!.

lies.........

2 kind of lies.........1) really do harm 2 u with a lie. a real sadist who 1.2 c u out of scene.2) bcos u r not ready for the real thing. so, these ppl looks after u and mean well with a lie.

love life, love urself & many around u.........

live life with gratitude, happiness & b contented @ ur level best....learn from more successful ppl , help the needy, never b jelous of the richer or look down upon the poorer...love life, love urself & many around u.........

when v cant stand ppl who is rule by desire....

depends on what v read, who v met, what v see and ...every event that happen together with ppl that cross our paths help shape our mind, thought and perceptions...if v read and understand more about teaching for laymen (not monks) v will understand better and accept ppl as they r when they r not ready to b enlightened. not all really understood which path is right or wrong 2( some thinks monk's practice r same as layman - in fact v cultivate many same or different responsibility)...mankind or monks r failure due to their shallow understanding,desire,ego,ignorance and lust....v have the right 2b but condemning one who is lost waste our time or help them to wake up .mayb v can help them oni when they r ready to change or else v r asking for unwanted problems....

how to prepare 4 an exam...............

hv 2share this: 2all form 1 -6 students & frens. if u have no $$ 4 tuition, pls slave some $ 4reference books. after every topic taught pls read up more & do some problems on d relevant topic.if ur still stuck with a problem go 2frens/ teachers. repeat answering even if u know/not(got tuition oso must).u ll see d light very very soon...dont sit & wait 4d light2 come! it might never come!

ur examination preparation do not happen next day b4, 1 week b4, 1 mth b4 or that very year of examination. form 1,2& 3 prepares u for pmr, form 4 & 5 prepares u 4 spm and it start on the day u start a new course not at the end b4 the examination. it is still never too late if u start right now!!!! dun believe if ur seniors tells u form 1,2,4,lower 6 or yr 1&2 uni is call the honey moon years........bullshit! these ppl r afraid that u ll do better!

Yeow Tow Guan

Haha... good comments! However, I shall add... Reference books are good for building up knowledge. But to score for UPSR, PMR, SPM or any goverment exams, it is important to understand and remember your textbooks in and out. Even those short sentences at the corner of the page.

Reason: Goverment considers the poor! Hence they set only exam questions that has been taught in the textbooks.

Loophole: Those who can memorize the textbooks will do well in most exams.... See more

Note: School exam is a different matter. Study hard and play hard as well. ^_^

hahaha! thanks sososo much 4 sharing, guan!!!! find making notes while reading is gr8 2. making notes, forces me to read and understand. my brain is very very lazy type and this is my remedy. memorising is sumting i cant..once i concept it, it stays in me.i got this very strong right brain functioning but u looks like the very very left type!!!! i think this benefit all who r reading this comments!! thanks again....lol!!!!

how to understand a topic.....

sounded scary when i read all the comments. its an art to study but its hard knocks if u dun know how to do it...........i remember when v cant afford tuition v make sure v can afford reference books( 2nd hand pun boleh). when a topic is taught v make sure v read more and when u understood or so call..just practice answering then v find our ... See more answers along the way...just go slow part by part dun try 2 understand every part. u just mess things up and ended up with 'O'...........lol. try answering the same questions over and over again.frens and teachers r good help.

u have to be ...........

yesterday, my challenging 2 youngest..........ME: mei ,pls sit and focus on ur homework,ok.koko finished his. NISHA: sure and i m doing it. see mama, koko shud b practicing piano but he is on computer....DOMINIC: wa.....h!!!! mei, i dun do this to you ,why do u have to do this to me!!!! i have to shut down now....whine whine whine

4 typs of human behavior...........

there 4 type of human.they wake up & find solution only if ....1) they willingly care 2 learned b4 mistake happens 2) they learned from other human's mistake 3) they learned only, if it mistake happen on their love ones 4) when they r face 2 face upon death of their mistake...i hope the human concern, realise this & do... something abt it b4 its 2 late. at times many event can b save........better b sorry than regret!!

views and perception.........

when u look down upon anyone or their family, it is no different to a 'caste' practice............everyone is made differently.some made their $$$ early ,some learn to make $$ late and some never understand how $ can b earned. b thankful to ur abilities to make urs by ur means or inherited...................helping one realising their potential is at ur finger tip and ur goodwill.

kalama sutta

do not believe when u heard it,handed down upon,rumoured,written, authorised but observe and analyze. when u find that it is agreeable with reason and is conducive to good and benefit everyone then it can be accepted and live up to...........

desicion making..........

learn to b more proactive la.... dun worry, u ll learn from mistake . if u dun learn 2 make decision, u wont move forward or improve. even if u do improve, it comes late.... u will grow up faster and maturity comes oni if u r willing to learn to make the best decision .try to have friends who r older,seek their opinion, learn and decide urself which is the best. this is another short cut...all the best and lol!

who is smarter??

intelligence is cultivated not born with or without. if u r normal and not special cases( special child ie; down syndrome).just like talents there r 2 type of behaviors of intelligence. u either develop it faster or slower that's all. some r the fast in getting it like the hare some r persistence but slower like the tortoise....... v r all made with different kind of intelligence.

23rd january 2010

.thru experience in teaching academically( ws giving tuition and a school teacher at one time oso-desperate for $$$) and artistically(ballet and ballroom ).......everyone is intelligent given time or chance to understand. oh yeah! luck too!~! depends on who u ended up with as a teacher. teacher with patience and persistence one u ll ended up a genius sooner or later.the one who dun give up on u...hahaha!

talent is when u r more incline to producing moves that is better or understood faster then other ppl.......i dont believe in talent too........a word me describe as nonsense.cos like intelligence it can be cultivated too. u and teacher play an important part in cultivating so no talent or intelligent ppl around. just try to understand , cultivate and show what u what u love most......lol

difference between animal and human.......

i realise all animals, insects and living things really treasure being alive it is only the so call wise human that will commit suicide..........sad and the most stupid! cheers to all who want to live,learn and improve..........

wat a life.........there is so much to learn,manage,decide ,act upon ,play upon and etc! Life is either full or a fool! hahaha! Sad for those who faces premature death.............

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being together as husband and wife...........and having a family.

i think a marraige is a partnership and teamwork like how a company function. v share all responsible and able to stand in for any place needed help not ur job or mine.......

.i know what i can do but at times ppl just take u 4 granted ....haiz! getting blame when u did ur best, even though its not ur job...........is worst when v dun do things 4 a medal or appreciation . u get a disappointing comment about what is not even ur problem, it is really a....go do it urself. unless i m one who cant be trusted always... See More ,then i will willingly shut up!

confirm OFF duty!...not a mum,wife or......just a teacher!ask me anything about dance and i ll answer. other than that ................hehehehehehehehe!!!!.

i hope i can blame someone for anything goes wrong...............it is so difficult to make things work. when not everyone feel the urge to understand, work together and support each other...............i burnt out i guess!!

just discovered house work is ....when u have the energy u dun have enuf time and when u have more time u dun have enuf energy!!!!!?????

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hard work pays off........

13th november 2009

dominic is going on stage to get his reward in school for being best student in 3 R class year 2009 in this new school .he is going to his ,so call 'smart class' next year! he use 2b in these so call classes and did work for it la...so, no surprise la everyone!! Nisha got reward from me too, for much improved result !!!

26th october 2009
many things happened the with a twist in life la. some lighter some tougher in 40 over years of living but the sweetest challenge comes from my little 'nisha lor'. v manage to straighten the bend....she responded and improved quite vertically this term in her final exam!!!!that is why, i believe in determination, persistence and sincere approach ... See Morelo...but not everyone will except this style,i lost students by persistence approach too.
at least my nisha felt gratitude and now responded. a happy girl in school, extra classes for chinese plus homework and mama's session of extra classes, everywhere......an achiever now! the reward happens in every area of my life......with DETERMINATION,PERSISTENCE AND SINCERE APPROACH actually ! hehehe......

24th october 2009

Rest if u must but keep moving ahead..........2day is a chance 2 just sit & watch the world filled with beauty or catch up with love ones..........

my expectation is within their ability and limit la..at times i over push a little to give them the awareness then i let go enuf to pull back any thing over looked.......... its not easy to play with their psychology gotta be very careful. BEND THEM BUT NEVER BREAK THEM- my philosophy.......hope i can succeed in bending them till uni lo......keeping me finger crossed all time.

learned, dont suppress a child's ability,intelligence& love ....when he/she is more incline 2b a right /left brain user. no harm done,if u introduce the opposite but dont push 2 hard. keep thing simple 2 basic 4 them 2 Njoy,if its not their cup of tea. continue 2 enhance it. children need both ways 2 help them manage ...& learn. it is a gain & advantage. just b careful over pushed can do more harm & burnt out..adults 2

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well hold on together-diana ross

a song that i listen to when i m down............ between cross roads in life,challenges v faces and everything in our life that needs a deep breath to move on ,this song helps me out from troubled water............TQ, diana and the song writer!!

papa and i

thanking papa 4 always being so understanding and patience.......

10th november 2009

good soul with a good heart he lived a blessed & happy life! he is so,so blessed! many of his new friends r oni 50-55 yrs old suffering from heart problem & he is 70,looking younger,fitter & much stronger then many......papa is smiling every second ear2ear! hehehe! all of us2........TQ all!

14th october 2009

never send ur child or aged parents to day care or old folks home if u do not want to get urself be there without a choice......

thanking everyone who created all my ancestors up to my parents who created me today..............hehehe! hong ji dan day today!!! all who shape my life ,good or bad its doesnt matter so long i had life long valuable lessons about things and everyone!!! i have many who loved me & envy me.no bad ppl except if they choo...se to think otherwise. we live to understand, tolerate & b patience, not 2b appreciated...

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penang december 2009 competition

2 OUR team in penang comp:dont lose ur way, with each passing day, u ve come so far, dont throw it away.. HOLD THE TRUTH IN UR HEART. u ve pass another episode of learning dance & comp..hold on together, go go go & u ll see the truth & answers FROM many angles. congrats(&/or) keep on going , stay focus & enjoy..winnin...g is not everything but WHAT U LEARNED IS EVERYTHING & SO MUCH MORE 2 LEARN!!!

ego and pride.....

13 december 2010

when ego & pride rules, u r a winner call 'no: 1 loser'.....hehehe! hope my children and students learn & not following unprofessional behaviors seen!

19th november 1009

when a person is ignorance, self centered & selfish, they do not know how 2 work 2gether or respect others ........their whole world or sentences spoken starts with an ," I.....,she....he...or u..". NEVER,' may i ..., can i/u...., did i/u... or sorry i/u....there u go ppl do a test on this , u ll find all these "I" ppl.... just b street smart when working with them,ok?

29th october 2009

human thoughts, desire and desicion r fickle, unreasonable and selfish when they r trying 2 run away from responsible, commitment ,teamwork and etc....

a person who wants to win so much .......... will looses control...........hehehe.........

24th october

trying to find a way to ....work with self centered people. maybe ....leave them alone and let them learn the way they think is wonderfully right ???

25th january 2010

when ego rules......nothing is going in to ur mind except that u think that u r very right and proud of it !! these ppl sucks!!

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watching u grow up.....

7th january 2010

i changed the children's bed sheet guess wat i found under their pillow: nisha: small soft toys + her fav barbie story book. dominic: model sport cars + archie&beano comics NICOL:....choco and sweet wrappers!!!!

6th january 2010

9.oo pm: nisha told me : 'mama u work so hard now,lucky u r fat now, after the holiday.' ask her why, she reply: if u r skinny u get sick easily and can die faster..........i ws speechless but happy without a maid. they r more mature, cute and nicol it a good help whenever needed.........

5th january 2010

on the 3rd morning of school: Nisha- ' i dont wanna go to school its boring. i want my holidays' Domi (ran our from bath naked)- 'i want 364 days holidays and 1 day of school.......' Nicol: 'aiya! its morning again........???'

4th january 2010

when u worked hard and smart in school, then u play real hard and having crazy fun in your holidays....u love everything u r doing. its true. i see it in my children and school going student. they missed both world equally...........

18th december 2009

very concern about nisha and dominic la...going wushu camp today . 4 days away form mama....hope they r street wise enuf! just finish packing their 2 little bags......

17 december 2009

proud and happy of nic0L in her 1st vocational ballet exam....she got a dicstintion!! she really worked hard and deserve it...........muakcs!

18th october 2009

my youngest 2 say it wz boring watching 'ms astro chinese pagent' but they din know if u watch 'ms malaysia/world' it wz worst(life)......actually ms chinese astro ws much improved and entertaining...........

16th aug 2009

waiting for 3rd term exam results.............thank goodness its over for the moment. my stressful 3 weeks is over!! domi was easy to handle but nisha has always been a real challenge for me!???? but she got 2nd in singing contest(no training and out of 16 girls n boys), 1st in free hand gymrama (learn oni 2 months)and...

nisha cut her burfday cake at the orphanage and she wz very happy & pleased about it.........let me share this, saw many kids hug Reverend & Tan ,when they wanted attention. i so move by it........they need love & trying to reach out 2 anyone willing 2 ca

dominic's little secret 2 share is out! he is top in class! boy !oh! boy!

getting older and being wiser.....

life gets better and happier when u gets older and wiser.........age is just a figure showing how many yrs u have been around and being wiser with happiness shows when u gets better and better in handling everything........

14th september 2009

life is like a large jigsaw puzzle for us to find and fit in !! it started on the day v were born till the day v kick the bucket...some made it ,some almost,some half way ,some never...................and why m i in heaven??? whether u made it or not u still end up x_x. cherish life and be good to urself plus many arou...nd us and do more charity. small or big in cash or in kind never matters.

being professional in appoach

having a professional approach 2c and control situation is great and satisfying..........so keep on learning and b open....dun have a selective mind or conclude things beyond ur knowledge. u help others see and learn with u............