why argue and why not reason??

fools argue:
1.to be right
2.to defense
3.because they felt offended
4.to get personal or even with a person
5.when they felt subject spoken is purposely directed towards them because it was true to a certain degree
6.because they are ignorant
7.because ego and perception rules


they will:
1.feels victory if other party show it is useless to carry on argument
2.be not ashamed but proud of their ignorance
3.uses lame excuse to get even
4.feels every subject spoken is purposely directed to him/her
5.offensive
6.defensive
7.egoistic
8. blame others for putting them into shame,unhappiness,not solving the problem for them and etc

when lost in an argument they stay silence to revenge later.



wise man reason:
1.to try to send message across
2.to show disagreement forefront
3.to will show weakness of person who ignorance
4.give up to avoid ugly scene
5. seek solace with the wise
6.move away from fools

at times i m happy that it created an impact that works...

Audrey P Yan in facebook: Pain is just an excuse , why not overcome your pain with your own determination and positive thinking to achieve the result and be proud for the effort and hard work that you had emphasized for ! (: by Luisa Lau

far cry from within..............

i m happy with my job but not happy with...............there for i cant move or improve much more than where i m now!!! situation is not stagnant too but descending rather then ascending. from achieving better i m afraid it is going down the drain.

to ppl whom i m currently working with.........

you cant move or improve far if you work with ppl who cant function or focus.......associate with the wise , you learn 2 manage and b wiser. associate with the fools you learn 2b ignorant and foolish. show the fools wisdom there is a chance to succeed, when fools cant absorb wisdom .......move away and leave them alone.

to my children who will eventually go thru...........

failure- if u learn 2 understand why it happen & how 2 deal with the mistake u made is the right approach than hating and blaming it and everyone except yourself!! many ppl fall to hating and blaming rather than dealing and understand how to work the right way........

a leader or a traitor...........

it is a world of everything out there........dream, chase, take, mark your territory, form clicks with ppl who r your kind and c who plays the game best!!! some see,learn,understood, work it out, make it happen, stay with the wise and make things better for every living being and grow........which one r u??