Thursday, January 28, 2010

how to prepare 4 an exam...............

hv 2share this: 2all form 1 -6 students & frens. if u have no $$ 4 tuition, pls slave some $ 4reference books. after every topic taught pls read up more & do some problems on d relevant topic.if ur still stuck with a problem go 2frens/ teachers. repeat answering even if u know/not(got tuition oso must).u ll see d light very very soon...dont sit & wait 4d light2 come! it might never come!

ur examination preparation do not happen next day b4, 1 week b4, 1 mth b4 or that very year of examination. form 1,2& 3 prepares u for pmr, form 4 & 5 prepares u 4 spm and it start on the day u start a new course not at the end b4 the examination. it is still never too late if u start right now!!!! dun believe if ur seniors tells u form 1,2,4,lower 6 or yr 1&2 uni is call the honey moon years........bullshit! these ppl r afraid that u ll do better!

Yeow Tow Guan
Haha... good comments! However, I shall add... Reference books are good for building up knowledge. But to score for UPSR, PMR, SPM or any goverment exams, it is important to understand and remember your textbooks in and out. Even those short sentences at the corner of the page.

Reason: Goverment considers the poor! Hence they set only exam questions that has been taught in the textbooks.

Loophole: Those who can memorize the textbooks will do well in most exams.... See more

Note: School exam is a different matter. Study hard and play hard as well. ^_
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hahaha! thanks sososo much 4 sharing, guan!!!! find making notes while reading is gr8 2. making notes, forces me to read and understand. my brain is very very lazy type and this is my remedy. memorising is sumting i cant..once i concept it, it stays in me.i got this very strong right brain functioning but u looks like the very very left type!!!! i think this benefit all who r reading this comments!! thanks again....lol!!!!

how to understand a topic.....

sounded scary when i read all the comments. its an art to study but its hard knocks if u dun know how to do it...........i remember when v cant afford tuition v make sure v can afford reference books( 2nd hand pun boleh). when a topic is taught v make sure v read more and when u understood or so call..just practice answering then v find our ... See more answers along the way...just go slow part by part dun try 2 understand every part. u just mess things up and ended up with 'O'...........lol. try answering the same questions over and over again.frens and teachers r good help.

u have to be ...........

yesterday, my challenging 2 youngest..........ME: mei ,pls sit and focus on ur homework,ok.koko finished his. NISHA: sure and i m doing it. see mama, koko shud b practicing piano but he is on computer....DOMINIC: wa.....h!!!! mei, i dun do this to you ,why do u have to do this to me!!!! i have to shut down now....whine whine whine

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

4 typs of human behavior...........

there 4 type of human.they wake up & find solution only if ....1) they willingly care 2 learned b4 mistake happens 2) they learned from other human's mistake 3) they learned only, if it mistake happen on their love ones 4) when they r face 2 face upon death of their mistake...i hope the human concern, realise this & do... something abt it b4 its 2 late. at times many event can b save........better b sorry than regret!!

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

views and perception.........

when u look down upon anyone or their family, it is no different to a 'caste' practice............everyone is made differently.some made their $$$ early ,some learn to make $$ late and some never understand how $ can b earned. b thankful to ur abilities to make urs by ur means or inherited...................helping one realising their potential is at ur finger tip and ur goodwill.

Saturday, January 23, 2010

kalama sutta

do not believe when u heard it,handed down upon,rumoured,written, authorised but observe and analyze. when u find that it is agreeable with reason and is conducive to good and benefit everyone then it can be accepted and live up to...........

Friday, January 22, 2010

desicion making..........

learn to b more proactive la.... dun worry, u ll learn from mistake . if u dun learn 2 make decision, u wont move forward or improve. even if u do improve, it comes late.... u will grow up faster and maturity comes oni if u r willing to learn to make the best decision .try to have friends who r older,seek their opinion, learn and decide urself which is the best. this is another short cut...all the best and lol!

who is smarter??

intelligence is cultivated not born with or without. if u r normal and not special cases( special child ie; down syndrome).just like talents there r 2 type of behaviors of intelligence. u either develop it faster or slower that's all. some r the fast in getting it like the hare some r persistence but slower like the tortoise....... v r all made with different kind of intelligence.

23rd january 2010

.thru experience in teaching academically( ws giving tuition and a school teacher at one time oso-desperate for $$$) and artistically(ballet and ballroom ).......everyone is intelligent given time or chance to understand. oh yeah! luck too!~! depends on who u ended up with as a teacher. teacher with patience and persistence one u ll ended up a genius sooner or later.the one who dun give up on u...hahaha!

talent is when u r more incline to producing moves that is better or understood faster then other ppl.......i dont believe in talent too........a word me describe as nonsense.cos like intelligence it can be cultivated too. u and teacher play an important part in cultivating so no talent or intelligent ppl around. just try to understand , cultivate and show what u what u love most......lol

Thursday, January 21, 2010

difference between animal and human.......

i realise all animals, insects and living things really treasure being alive it is only the so call wise human that will commit suicide..........sad and the most stupid! cheers to all who want to live,learn and improve..........

wat a life.........there is so much to learn,manage,decide ,act upon ,play upon and etc! Life is either full or a fool! hahaha! Sad for those who faces premature death.............

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being together as husband and wife...........and having a family.

i think a marraige is a partnership and teamwork like how a company function. v share all responsible and able to stand in for any place needed help not ur job or mine.......


.i know what i can do but at times ppl just take u 4 granted ....haiz! getting blame when u did ur best, even though its not ur job...........is worst when v dun do things 4 a medal or appreciation . u get a disappointing comment about what is not even ur problem, it is really a....go do it urself. unless i m one who cant be trusted always... See More ,then i will willingly shut up!

confirm OFF duty!...not a mum,wife or......just a teacher!ask me anything about dance and i ll answer. other than that ................hehehehehehehehe!!!!
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i hope i can blame someone for anything goes wrong...............it is so difficult to make things work. when not everyone feel the urge to understand, work together and support each other...............i burnt out i guess!!

just discovered house work is ....when u have the energy u dun have enuf time and when u have more time u dun have enuf energy!!!!!?????

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hard work pays off........

13th november 2009


dominic is going on stage to get his reward in school for being best student in 3 R class year 2009 in this new school .he is going to his ,so call 'smart class' next year! he use 2b in these so call classes and did work for it la...so, no surprise la everyone!! Nisha got reward from me too, for much improved result !!!

26th october 2009
many things happened the with a twist in life la. some lighter some tougher in 40 over years of living but the sweetest challenge comes from my little 'nisha lor'. v manage to straighten the bend....she responded and improved quite vertically this term in her final exam!!!!that is why, i believe in determination, persistence and sincere approach ... See Morelo...but not everyone will except this style,i lost students by persistence approach too.
at least my nisha felt gratitude and now responded. a happy girl in school, extra classes for chinese plus homework and mama's session of extra classes, everywhere......an achiever now! the reward happens in every area of my life......with DETERMINATION,PERSISTENCE AND SINCERE APPROACH actually ! hehehe......

24th october 2009

Rest if u must but keep moving ahead..........2day is a chance 2 just sit & watch the world filled with beauty or catch up with love ones..........


my expectation is within their ability and limit la..at times i over push a little to give them the awareness then i let go enuf to pull back any thing over looked.......... its not easy to play with their psychology gotta be very careful. BEND THEM BUT NEVER BREAK THEM- my philosophy.......hope i can succeed in bending them till uni lo......keeping me finger crossed all time.

learned, dont suppress a child's ability,intelligence& love ....when he/she is more incline 2b a right /left brain user. no harm done,if u introduce the opposite but dont push 2 hard. keep thing simple 2 basic 4 them 2 Njoy,if its not their cup of tea. continue 2 enhance it. children need both ways 2 help them manage ...& learn. it is a gain & advantage. just b careful over pushed can do more harm & burnt out..adults 2

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well hold on together-diana ross

a song that i listen to when i m down............ between cross roads in life,challenges v faces and everything in our life that needs a deep breath to move on ,this song helps me out from troubled water............TQ, diana and the song writer!!

papa and i

thanking papa 4 always being so understanding and patience.......

10th november 2009

good soul with a good heart he lived a blessed & happy life! he is so,so blessed! many of his new friends r oni 50-55 yrs old suffering from heart problem & he is 70,looking younger,fitter & much stronger then many......papa is smiling every second ear2ear! hehehe! all of us2........TQ all!


14th october 2009

never send ur child or aged parents to day care or old folks home if u do not want to get urself be there without a choice......

thanking everyone who created all my ancestors up to my parents who created me today..............hehehe! hong ji dan day today!!! all who shape my life ,good or bad its doesnt matter so long i had life long valuable lessons about things and everyone!!! i have many who loved me & envy me.no bad ppl except if they choo...se to think otherwise. we live to understand, tolerate & b patience, not 2b appreciated...

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penang december 2009 competition

2 OUR team in penang comp:dont lose ur way, with each passing day, u ve come so far, dont throw it away.. HOLD THE TRUTH IN UR HEART. u ve pass another episode of learning dance & comp..hold on together, go go go & u ll see the truth & answers FROM many angles. congrats(&/or) keep on going , stay focus & enjoy..winnin...g is not everything but WHAT U LEARNED IS EVERYTHING & SO MUCH MORE 2 LEARN!!!

ego and pride.....

13 december 2010


when ego & pride rules, u r a winner call 'no: 1 loser'.....hehehe! hope my children and students learn & not following unprofessional behaviors seen!

19th november 1009

when a person is ignorance, self centered & selfish, they do not know how 2 work 2gether or respect others ........their whole world or sentences spoken starts with an ," I.....,she....he...or u..". NEVER,' may i ..., can i/u...., did i/u... or sorry i/u....there u go ppl do a test on this , u ll find all these "I" ppl.... just b street smart when working with them,ok?

29th october 2009

human thoughts, desire and desicion r fickle, unreasonable and selfish when they r trying 2 run away from responsible, commitment ,teamwork and etc....

a person who wants to win so much .......... will looses control...........hehehe.........

24th october

trying to find a way to ....work with self centered people. maybe ....leave them alone and let them learn the way they think is wonderfully right ???

25th january 2010

when ego rules......nothing is going in to ur mind except that u think that u r very right and proud of it !! these ppl sucks!!

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watching u grow up.....

7th january 2010


i changed the children's bed sheet guess wat i found under their pillow: nisha: small soft toys + her fav barbie story book. dominic: model sport cars + archie&beano comics NICOL:....choco and sweet wrappers!!!!

6th january 2010

9.oo pm: nisha told me : 'mama u work so hard now,lucky u r fat now, after the holiday.' ask her why, she reply: if u r skinny u get sick easily and can die faster..........i ws speechless but happy without a maid. they r more mature, cute and nicol it a good help whenever needed.........

5th january 2010

on the 3rd morning of school: Nisha- ' i dont wanna go to school its boring. i want my holidays' Domi (ran our from bath naked)- 'i want 364 days holidays and 1 day of school.......' Nicol: 'aiya! its morning again........???'

4th january 2010

when u worked hard and smart in school, then u play real hard and having crazy fun in your holidays....u love everything u r doing. its true. i see it in my children and school going student. they missed both world equally...........

18th december 2009

very concern about nisha and dominic la...going wushu camp today . 4 days away form mama....hope they r street wise enuf! just finish packing their 2 little bags......

17 december 2009

proud and happy of nic0L in her 1st vocational ballet exam....she got a dicstintion!! she really worked hard and deserve it...........muakcs!

18th october 2009

my youngest 2 say it wz boring watching 'ms astro chinese pagent' but they din know if u watch 'ms malaysia/world' it wz worst(life)......actually ms chinese astro ws much improved and entertaining...........

16th aug 2009

waiting for 3rd term exam results.............thank goodness its over for the moment. my stressful 3 weeks is over!! domi was easy to handle but nisha has always been a real challenge for me!???? but she got 2nd in singing contest(no training and out of 16 girls n boys), 1st in free hand gymrama (learn oni 2 months)and...

nisha cut her burfday cake at the orphanage and she wz very happy & pleased about it.........let me share this, saw many kids hug Reverend & Tan ,when they wanted attention. i so move by it........they need love & trying to reach out 2 anyone willing 2 ca

dominic's little secret 2 share is out! he is top in class! boy !oh! boy!

getting older and being wiser.....

life gets better and happier when u gets older and wiser.........age is just a figure showing how many yrs u have been around and being wiser with happiness shows when u gets better and better in handling everything........


14th september 2009

life is like a large jigsaw puzzle for us to find and fit in !! it started on the day v were born till the day v kick the bucket...some made it ,some almost,some half way ,some never...................and why m i in heaven??? whether u made it or not u still end up x_x. cherish life and be good to urself plus many arou...nd us and do more charity. small or big in cash or in kind never matters.

being professional in appoach

having a professional approach 2c and control situation is great and satisfying..........so keep on learning and b open....dun have a selective mind or conclude things beyond ur knowledge. u help others see and learn with u............