before i say, i do..............

before i say, i do.......i contemplate in many angles and dimension. i must b at the right mind, foresee and make wise planing , not to hurt, respect, cherish each other for poorer or richness, nurse each other when sickness to health, mistake are for us to learn not to argue who is more right or who made the mistake and most of all mistake are not to be repeat, not to foolishly give up this union unless the other party is foolish in making this foolish decisions and actions, lead when needed, follow when it is right with no harm to others, being a good listener and advise wisely.

18 yrs has passed , many tear has been shed, many doubts has been understood, many hurdles has been crossed, many joy and laughter with 3 precious darlings. aren't we mature enough to live another 100 years together without doubt how to handle ourselves and share what we learned with everyone??