life with blocks built upon us.....

life is more than one dimension looking ,judging, listening and understanding many things,problems, people before conclusion. many have selective preference with people, ways, religion and perception to make judgment due to hidden agenda.

i prefer to take the path where i am able to facing the truth and being real than rely on sources... and assumptions............See more
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Simon Ng
there is this thing called "selective perception" which causes bias. in short, people tends to process/interprete what they gathered in a way that favors them. hey we are all human, :)
in verbal communication, it is also hard to blame the li...stener because human have this limited rate of processing/interpreting what one hear - the brain works slower than the mouth, i guess, ha ha - especially when one is faced with someone who have verbal diarrhea.
i always believe communication, verbal or non-verbal is an art that needs lots of practices to get them right, :)See more
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Luisa Lau
bingo simon but ppl that falls into these categories r harmful when they misconception things. they cant tell or accept the difference between the truth or lies.they have the potential to gather influence from the same kind to go against u....

if u r not in their favour ,they possess danger in eliminating ur talents and presents felt.making life hard for you. i came a long way to b able to survive these ppl.

blocking them out by our means in what evil intention they harbour and focusing on our strength, v find our destiny and move on. v r our own refuge together with supportive ppl who think and work with an independent right mind.

communication is the best to bridge ,no doubt but hidden agenda with bad intention cant bridge or enlighten them to the right path( just like our political parties). i ws the unlucky few who met ppl who envy us rather than showing supporting young talents in our early days of dance and they wont change till now...it dont bother us so much actually but the truth is still the truth no matter how much u try to kill an opportunity, they will b another chance for the best to prove.

i will always support those who work with correct mind and sincere in their approach.........;PSee more
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Simon Ng
luisa, i like what you said, "if u r not in their favour, they possess danger in eliminating ur talents and presents felt" - i guess this is humans' natural defence - of buiding "brick walls" - when they felt threaten, perhaps by someone e...lse's talents or presents. i remembered randy pausch quoted:

"Brick walls are there for a reason. The brick walls are not there to keep us out. The brick walls are there to show how badly we want something. Because the brick walls are there to stop the people who don’t want something badly enough. They are there to keep out the other people." Randy Pausch ( 1960-2008 )

& it took me a while to understand the quote, :)See more
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Luisa Lau
these bricks block are mostly built by those:
1. who r old and don have much prospect, they felt the threat!!
2. who r young but want short cut to success but dont want ur talent on their way,
3.jealousy
4. when a person cant accept their limit...s and dont wanna c u there
5. different minds
and many other narrow reasons by psychological threat ....

many ppl want to sit on the throne that u built but fail to see the hard work of building and sincerity in achieving it.See more
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Simon Ng spot on for all the points. i agreed with you that these are some of the reasons. frankly speaking, it has always been a challenge to break down walls, & build bridges instead. but hopefully, we mustn't give up on these challenges. i wish you all the best in facing these challenges ahead luisa, ...
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Luisa Lau
simon, u r one very well read thinker too...........i realise that when a person spots talents and they try to built bridges, the fall into the prey of ppl unknowing to them that they r taking them like a stepping stone to help them buil...t a swelling head too. its never good or bad but our conscience must be clear.

no regrets building the bridge even though the bridge is not named after us..hahaha....that is the best...selfless and egoless .then v help more buddings to move fwd and not letting swellings heads monopolise the future.

v all continue to built bridges instead of walls hor?? wah...i love to get to know more thinker like u too!! can share a lot of so call philosophy of life!!! ;)

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